roasting friends is oppression, actually

And that right there is the subtle bias against men that underlies most social discussions. Toxic masculinity has no clear definition, and many normal male interactions are stigmatized by feminist circles. Physical confrontation, crude jokes, roasting your friends, these are all normal behaviors that are labeled "toxic". Sexual assault and misogyny are actual toxic masculinity, and should obviously be discouraged, but the other stuff gets unfairly villainized. Men need a safe space where they are free from feminized social norms.