Actually it's not gender, it's just that phones bad and COVID sad

I’m sorry that this is your experience, but the majority of men do have meaningful relationships even without hobbies or clubs. Everyone can feel lonely the same amount, and I seriously doubt there are more young men than young women who feel lonely. I think there is a loneliness epidemic in general because young people now are very much online, and Gen Z grew up online and even COULDNT have social interaction because of COVID. It’s not gender, it’s environment. Social skills in general are plummeting.